How Does Your Attitude Affects Your Blog
They say your attitude towards circumstances can create a huge impact in your life which I completely agree of. This is also certainly true in terms of blogging. How you see and what you feel about your blog deeply affects the totality of your website. I say this because I see blogging as a very personal platform thus making it one of my favorite form of social media. It’s personal because you can easily feel, understand, connect and relate to the writer since I undoubtedly believe that bloggers tend to be more conspicuous in terms of their emotions and attitude towards life in their writings.
This is why I choose to patronize bloggers who evidently put so much effort, time and heart in their works. I choose authenticity and ingenuity. But to me, nothing really beats individuality. Why? Because it feels so damn good to read something that’s real and sincere! That’s the true value of a successful blog! But how do you really spot a blog with these attitude? Simple. You just feel it naturally. The writer’s words will speak on their own, it’ll just make you feel and that’s how you’ll find out that there’s so much heart in that article or website. And to me, that’s beyond magical.
So how does your attitude affects your blog?
I’ll go straight to the point here. Your attitude is the core of your blog! Think about the old saying- “You cannot preach what you don’t practice”. That I guess explains it all. For example, you cannot preach about positivity if you yourself is full of negativities, you cannot effectively promote forgiveness if you harbor so much hatred, you cannot spread self-acceptance if you do not know how to accept your own flaws and most of all your readers will likely not love your blog if you do not honestly love your blog! It all starts with you and in you!
On its own, blogging already takes so much work. It requires so much patience. If you lack this attitude, you will give up on your blog in no time. This is why it’s important to love what you are sharing! Love what you are doing because if you put your heart into whatever you are doing, everything else will follow. You might be thinking, how about the number of followers or views? Of course these two matters! But how can you attract consistent and possibly high following if you cannot effectively convey your message? Your readers has to feel your emotions, understand what you are trying to say and see you through your writings. Blogging is not always about the numbers! It’s how you effectively reach out and touch other people’s lives!
It’s true that in this time and era, the blogging world is very saturated with so much websites but think of those who has already made it, your favorite bloggers and writers. What do they all have in common? Passion, love and perseverance. And I think if we all learn to practice all of these, our blog will possible make it someday!
The main lesson is to always let your heart talk!
In the end, we are all human. It’s normal to feel sad, hurt and discouraged. Life is not always a bed of roses and having all of these emotions does not mean that you won’t be able to write effectively! Sometimes, you can even be more creative when you are at your lowest. But, how you accept, see and use all of these emotions will create all the difference!
xoxo,
27 Comments
Joy
Love this post and I totally agree with you!! xx
thatgirlarlene
Thank you so much!
RheaAngeline
This particular blog post only shows how beautiful you are, inside and out. 😘
thatgirlarlene
Wow naman! LOL. Thank you!
lalassjourney
I completely agree!
thatgirlarlene
Yes!
SpokaneMom
This was such a great write. Thank you for sharing this. Really hit home for me personally. I am absolutely a work in progress. Which I am grateful I am aware of and see what I need to improve. Using my voice intentionally is so important. Which i one reason why I blog. Your words were on point friend. Thanks again! Xoxo
thatgirlarlene
And thank you so much for reading as well!
fashionanitastar
Great post! I completely agree xx
thatgirlarlene
Thank you!
misschissyblog
Okay I could tell you put some soul into this post…really great piece and every word of it is true.
kenzie
I disagree. From your voice is true writing. Without emotion a voice is lifeless. Sure. The commercial mainstream aspect is, huge. The potential is there to promote whatever everyone else thinks is great. Therefore, you get some praises as well. Is it authentic? No. I don’t follow people because I don’t like reading commercials. That’s just me.
thatgirlarlene
Hmmm. Yes! I agree, emotion is very important and I believe I mentioned that so many time on the post.😃 Anyways, thank you for reading. It’s always good to hear different opinions. Have a good one!
kenzie
You did. But, you also mentioned that only good writing comes from good emotions. That’s my biggest argument there. Maybe it’s different for men but it really shouldn’t be.
thatgirlarlene
I believe I did not say anything like that but if you believe so, can you give me the particular paragraph or statement that has given you that notion? Here is the final notes on how I ended the article.
“The main lesson is to always let your heart talk!
In the end, we are all human. It’s normal to feel sad, hurt and discouraged. Life is not always a bed of roses and having all of these emotions does not mean that you won’t be able to write effectively! Sometimes, you can even be more creative when you are at your lowest. But, how you accept, see and use all of these emotions will create all the difference!”
Also, gender does not have anything to do about this post. Just so you know.
kenzie
Have a good night.
thatgirlarlene
You too sir! I would suggest for you to read any article fully before reacting next time. 😊 Commercialism and/or gender was never a part of this article. It talks about our emotions, thoughts, reactions, attitude and how we use them on our writings. Good emotions doesn’t always equate to good writings in fact bad or sad emotions can be a strong force to encourage anyone to write better.
Hope this clears the negative notion my writing may have caused you.
kenzie
I read it twice now. Fully. I’d appreciate you not suggesting otherwise.
THE STYLE FEED
Thank you for this, I needed it so bad! I’ve been struggling with publishing my ‘sad work’ I call it, you’ve inspired me to get publishing! No more waiting to be happy to hit the button, just to do it and hope that I can help someone that is also struggling. When times are hard we crave understanding, we reach for our phones in hope of finding some answer, something to make us feel better. I believe that place is WordPress 💕 x
thatgirlarlene
You did the right choice! Don’t be afraid of sharing your work be it sad or happy or whatever because it’ll inspire other people.. I promise you! Keep writing!
Seidowhi
I can’t agree better. What you feel and are on the inside you pour out and your reader as you said will feel it. Thank you for your insight and reminder to do this from my heart.
thatgirlarlene
I completely agree with you. Keep writing girl!
Seidowhi
Thank you
Fiona, Sunshine, Raindrops and Tea in the Garden
I agree with you, when we write from the heart our writing flows easier.
Gaurav kumar singh
Yes…..Right…..I agree from this blog……
Shameena
Tat was one lovely post.. useful
sarahjambler
I’d been feeling discouraged about recent views, but you’re so right! Thank you for reminding me why I love blogging so much x